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|In aceasta perioada mi se intampla sa aud multa lume cum se plange de diverse lipsuri. Nu spun ca acestea nu exista – mai ales ca fiecare isi stie problemele personale.
Mergeam insa cu tramvaiul si in spatele meu doua doamne discutau.
Una ii spunea celeilalte ca lucreaza de la 8 la 6, inclusiv sambata, si ca ar vrea sa lucreze doar de la 8 la 4 sau sa nu mai lucreze sambata sau, atentie, sa lucreze si sambata si de la 8 la 6 dar pe 1000 de lei, nu pe 800 de lei ca acum.
V-am lasat cu gura cascata?
Ei bine trebuie sa adaug ca femeia in cauza nu era colorata, nu era murdara, nu mirosea urat. Era o romanca, o persoana ce lucreaza pentru a contribui, alaturi de sotul ei cu acelasi salariu la veniturile familiei pentru a avea cu ce plati toate cele, inclusiv pentru copilul aflat in scoala generala – clasa a VI-a daca am inteles bine.
Si stiti care e culmea? Femeia nu se plangea. Se gandea doar ca in orele ce i-ar ramane libere – de la 4 in sus – ar putea sa mai faca si ea ceva in plus sa mai castige ceva.
Da, sunt multi oamenii care traiesc cu atatia bani (ca doar salariul mediu iese cu multi cu venituri mici si putini cu venituri mari). Si-atunci cum sa nu te gandesti ca tu care poate de la 4000 de lei ai doar 2000 de lei poti totusi sa traiesti?
De fapt de cat ai nevoie pentru a trai?
Stiu, multi vor sari repede sa spuna ca nu e normal sa te gandesti ca poti trai cu mai putin, ca de ce sa te uiti in jos (si inca eu nu v-am dat exemplu de o doamna pe care o mai vedem cand plimbam catelul seara si care doamna cauta in gunoaie, e spalata, e ok, dar poate mai gaseste ceva…) si nu in sus.
E normal sa tinzi spre mai bine. Dar nu cumva te poti si chibzui? Nu e bine ca in loc sa te apuci sa te plangi mereu – de politica, de viata, de bani, de lipsuri, de facturile de platit etc. – sa te uiti la sumele de bani pe care le faci/ai la dispozitie si sa te gandesti cum ai putea face sa traiesti bine acum si ce ai putea face pentru a-ti fi mai bine in general? Chiar credeti ca e cineva dispus sa va auda, de fiecare data, plangandu-va, aratand doar ce e negru si urat si neincercand sa vedem si ce e frumos, ce e bine, pentru ce putem fi multumiti si ce mai putem face pentru a fi si mai bine?
Eu zic ca doamna care nu se plangea nici ca munceste, nici de cat munceste ci doar ca ar vrea 1000 de lei pentru cele 10 ore pe zi si 6 zile pe saptamana in loc de cei 800 pe care ii face – sau ore libere ca sa poata sa isi mai gaseasca ceva ar trebui sa ne dea de gandit.
Omul e ca un lichid. TendinÈ›a lui “naturală” e de a umple recipientul. Dacă are mult, mult cheltuie. Pentru oameni care au trăit cu puÈ›in îți recomand Walden de Henry David Thoreau ca să vezi ce a făcut un om cu 8 dolari È™i 71 de cenÈ›i. Mă rog, cu vreo sută cincizeci de ani în urmă.
Pai de fapt asta e esenta: ne trebuie putin. O alta femeie vorbea despre cum azi se implinesc ani de la bombardamentul american in urma caruia a ramas cu hainele de pe ea si cu copilul din brate.
E drept ca incepem sa cheltuim, e cumva si firesc, dar parca sunt si limite. Iar acum sa vezi pe cineva care face multe mii de lei ca se plange mai rau decat cineva care nu face nici o mie…
Da Loredana, sunt perfect de acord cu tine ca trebuie sa ne chibzuim, dar fiecare situatie e unica in felul ei… sotul ei tot 800 lei castiga pe luna? Atunci da, veniturile le sunt foarte mici … dar au apartament propriu cred… nu platesc chirie de sute de euro, poate nu au rate la banci… sigur nu au masina in leasing, poate au parinti la tara si mai primesc ceva alimente, te-ai gandit?
Atunci cand ai venituri peste medie … incerci sa-ti asiguri un trai bun, peste medie… pentru ca atunci pentru ce altceva ai munci … sa tii banii in cont la banca, si peste un an sau doi sa nu mai valoreze nimic? Da ar fi ideal sa-i investesti in ceva… dar in ce? Unii se relaxeaza in vacante scumpe, altii investesc in tehnica si aparaturi… fiecare cum considera…
Da, stiu, sunt constienta ca sunt oameni care efectiv se chinuie de pe o zi pe alta… si nu au ce pune pe masa… si vi se pare normal sa munceasca pe banii astia? Ambii soti? Nu ar trebui sa ne plangem … dar avem voie sa fim nemultumiti ca nu ni se plateste cu adevarat munca!!
In invatamant tu cat crezi ca e salariul… pentru un debutant… tot cam asa, si nu pune numai orele de clasa pentru ca un profesor se mai pregateste si pe langa, in traduceri cum crezi ca se castiga… si cat muncesti pentru a traduce o pagina la care esti platit de catre firme cu 3 lei maximum? Pai sa traduci 100 de pagini cu 300 lei tot cam atat inseamna lunar… Asta daca gasesti de munca, ca nici traduceri nu se mai fac cum se faceau… Asta e tara noastra, eu as pleca si maine daca as putea, dar nu mai sunt chiar atat de tanara!!
Si intr-adevar, cand nu ai alta solutie te intinzi cat ti-e plapuma, dar ce faci cand te-ai intins mai mult decat trebuia, pentru ca te bazai pe un venit care acum nu mai este??
Desigur ca exista situatii situatii si ca, pentru fiecare, situatia lui e mai dificila si mai grea.
Pe de alta parte as putea aminti de bunica mea venita in capitala, iarna, la 16 ani, in singura pereche de incaltaminte pe care o avea: sandale. Nu a plecat de bine de acasa, ci pentru a-si face un viitor. Si pe vremea aia nu puteai munci in Bucuresti pana nu aveai buletin. Si totusi a reusit, fara sa faca nefacute sau urate.
Si am multe exemple de gen – inclusiv, cum ziceam in comentariul anterior, doamna care in urma bombardamentului a ramas doar cu hainele de pe ea si copilul in brate.
Usor nu e pentru multi – de la probleme care duc firme pe minus sau poate la faliment, de la lipsuri diverse dar… un pic de atentie nu strica. Sunt parinti care isi fac singuri scutece si le spala – ca pe vremuri – pentru ca nu au bani de cele de unica folosinta din comert (ca sa dau un exemplu). Solutii se gasesc.
Cat despre ratele si plapuma… acolo nu e nimic sigur si “teoria” de alegere a unor credite e extrem de greu de pus in practica de multa lume – stii ca ar trebui sa te indatorezi astfel incat sa fie mai putin de jumatate din ce castigi, tocmai pentru ca nimic nu mai e sigur.
Ce voiam sa subliniez eu in primul rand este ca atitudinea aceea in care doar ne plangem si scoatem negrul si griul in fata nu e una de succes. Probleme au toti – chiar daca o arata, chiar daca nu. S-ar putea sa avem impresia ca X o duce foarte bine, dar stim cu adevarat situatia financiara (si nu numai) a acelor oameni?
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