Parintii sunt mai fericiti decat cei care nu au copii – studiu – si-atunci de ce pozeaza in victime adesea?
Taman cand ma pregateam sa scriu un articol despre un produs pe care il recomand parintilor am gasit un studiu interesant publicat acum pe care ma grabesc sa vi-l aduc la cunostinta. Las produsul pentru saptamana viitoare (nu e parte din vreo campanie, e pur si simplu un produs pe care il veti gasi la multi furnizori). Studiul pe care l-am citit arata ca parintii – in special tatii – sunt mult mai fericiti decat persoanele care nu au copii.
Veti spune ca e firesc. Din multe puncte de vedere asa este.
Cu toate acestea vad o sumedenie de parinti – si mame si tati – care doar se plang. Sau la care procentajul plans de diverse – bucurie ca au copii este 80-20.
Chiar ma uitam pe unele bloguri – intre timp am incetat sa le vizitez – cum aproape doar despre cat de greu e, despre cat de neastamparat e copilul si asa mai departe.
Citind acele bloguri si vorbind cu diverse mame si cu unii tati ai putea intelege ca odata ce ai un copil vei avea parte doar de clipe grele, de nesomn, de boli, de nervi, mizerie, costuri ridicate etc.
Rar aud pe cineva povestind cu entuziasm despre lucrurile frumoase si momentele deosebite care iti implinesc viata. Da, nu e usor sa ai un copil intotdeauna, dar daca este unul dorit de ce oare multe persoane aleg sa vada doar greutatile si nu sa se bucure de fiecare clipa?
E ca in faza cu posturile si indemnurile – pe bloguri sau in realitate – de genul “pretuieste-i pe cei dragi”, “bucura-te de apropiati”, “spune-le ca ii iubesti” etc. cat mai sunt in viata. De fiecare data cand moare cineva – vedeta sau cunoscut de-al unei persoane cu influenta (sau al mai multora) apar asemenea postari si acelasi indemn. Sigur ca asa trebuie facut, dar de ce postari doar cand nu mai sunt si niciodata din timpul si de ce adesea multi zic ca da, asa trebuie facut, isi schimba atitudinea dar ii tine o zi? Bine, asta e de fapt alta discutie, la fel de lunga precum cea cu parintii si bucurii.
Adevarul e ca apropo de partea cu studiul care arata ca parintii sunt mai fericiti decat cei care nu au copii si in articolul de prezentare se spune ca aceasta e realitatea desi nu aceasta e impresia lasata de parinti – cum ca ar fi veseli, fericiti etc.
Cand stii ca urmeaza sa ai un copil stii si ca urmeaza o perioada diferita in viata, cu prioritati schimbate dar si cu multe realizari si bucurii, cu nopti nedormite, dar si cu momente deosebite. De ce apoi multe persoane aleg sa prezinte doar ce nu e placut si mai rar momentele frumoase pentru care de fapt ai ales sa ai un copil?
Repet: stiu ca nu e usor. Stiu cum e sa fii la o luna dupa ce ai nascut singura acasa, cu sotul plecat si tu sa ai grija si de copil, si de caine, si de tine. Sa tii si casa, sa faci si de mancare, sa si lucrezi, sa plimbi si copilul de doua ori pe zi, sa plimbi si cainele de doua ori pe zi. Si daca am crezut ca asta a fost greu stati sa vedeti cum a fost cand am avut piciorul in orteza – si am avut doua prietene care veneau sa plimbe cainele si sa ma mai ajute sa ii fac baie lui Eric si in rest tot eu le-am facut, cum am putut pe toate. Iar in iunie ma mai asteapta o tura – acum post operatie:)
Sincer nu am simtit nevoia sa ma plang vreun pic. Nu e usor – dar cand vezi zambetul copilului tau, cand ii auzi rasul, cand te joci cu el, cand il inveti diverse, cand vorbesti cu el si iti raspunde – pe limba lui, dar se face inteles – iti dai seama ca nu iti mai trebuie nimic.
In primele zile ale lui Eric, cand zambea inainte sa adoarma – si mai apoi cand a crescut un pic si zambea mult (si acum zambeste mult) ma intrebam oare de ce nu pot oamenii plati ceva cu zambete de copil. Nu iti mai trebuie nimic altceva.
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“Your alibi will be checked. Meanwhile I don’t want you to leave this city.”
“Then why don’t you try the not-so-famous?”
“Well, you must admit, it had certain attractions.”
Then I gasped even louder as he slowly pulled the supporting cube out from under her elbow so that she was floating in midair.
“And you think differently? That is not Kaia’s way.”
“That is exactly what I mean. We should never place ourselves in this kind of position again. You think about it.”
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“Sorry about that pause. But I had to convince a certain party that, in these days of technological wonders, the previous bit of this interview could have been electronically faked. What cannot be faked is a fact known only to you and me. So cast your mind back down the long light-years to the time when we first met. I always wore a locket around my neck. Do you remember what was in it?”
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“Generally speaking, yes.”
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“You must stand very still,” he said. “Whatever happens you must not move. Do you understand?”
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“Tell him I’m coming…” In a hoarse whisper.
“Last room,” Bolivar said in a worried voice, looking in the door. “The master bedroom.”
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