Prietenii si interes
Astazi nu aveam de gand sa scriu pe blog. (O sa intrebati poate “Si cin’ te obliga?” – Raspunsul e simplu – nimeni.) Doar ca… ultimele zile si nu numai m-au facut sa ma gandesc mai indeaproape la prietenii si interes.
Prietenii adevarati sunt rari. Si fericiti sunt cei ce n-au avut alaturi niciodata asa-zisi prieteni care le-au fost aproape o perioada – aceeasi in care i-au putut folosi – si ulterior i-au parasit – la bine si la greu. (Da, e ciudat sa te paraseasca cineva chiar la bine, dar… invidie exista, oamenii se schimba…) Revenind. Stiu prietenii de o viata. Sincere. Total dezinteresate. Ma uit de asemenea in jurul meu si vad si o multitudine de “prietenii” din interes. Practic de amicitii poate nici chiar mereu sincere. Uneori vad oameni care au nevoie langa ei de oameni mai slabi pe care sa ii ajute, in fata carora ei sa fie “mari si tari” – pentru ca e dovedit medical – fiecare isi cauta in mod diferit fericirea si compenseaza cum poate. Oricum, cert este ca prietenia adevarata ar trebui sa poata supravietui unor momente mai putin usoare si placute, femeilor/barbatilor care apar in viata fiecarui prieten, succeselor sau insucceselor fiecaruia s.a.m.d.
Privind in sus intotdeauna noua ne e mai rau (pentru ca nu avem diverse), privind insa in jos ne simtim mult mai bine. Si-atunci de ce sunt atat de putini cei ce apreciaza ce au? Fireste ca e normal sa vrei mai bine, dar nu trebuie sa uiti care sunt lucrurile care te pot face sa te simti binecuvantat.
Cat de adevarate sunt prieteniile de afaceri? Marturisesc sincer ca foarte putine astfel de prietenii am vazut. Cu bucurie sincera pentru celalalt cand ii merge bine, fara incercari de folosire a lui pentru a ajunge in alte parti. Atentie: e una sa se ofere cineva sa te ajute si tu sa accepti ajutorul (care trebuie sa fie neconditionat altfel deja nu mai e ajutor ci devine tot o parghie prin care celalalt reuseste sa atinga niste scopuri) si e cu totul altceva sa il vezi pe cel de langa tine ca un potential mijloc.
Chiar! Daca stau si ma gandesc mai bine, cat de adevarate sunt prieteniile unor oameni din agentii si companii cu unii din media? Iarasi nu voi face greseala de a generaliza. Insa din nou deschid larg ochii la cei din apropierea mea si la relatiile lor. Poate ca un jurnalist te intreaba cum iti merge, ce proiecte mai ai – dar deseori am vazut ca a deschide gura inseamna si a aparea in ziare stiri in exclusivitate care nu-s inca gata pentru a fi facute publice. Mai mult. Daca acel jurnalist e invitat la evenimentele tale si aici primeste si niste cadouri frumoase, nu cumva e logic sa te intrebe ce mai faci – poate mai afla de inca o oportunitate de a mai iesi undeva, de a primi un cadou? Si doar pe baza unor zambete, a unor intrebari si poate a unui material aparut undeva poti numi pe cineva prieten?
Cum poti aprecia daca cineva iti e prieten – afaceri si/sau personal? Exageram daca vorbim si de prietenii de moment (chiar daca sunt cativa ani la mijloc) sau de context?
Nu caut aici sa invinovatesc pe nimeni, sa critic pe nimeni si nimic. Ma intreb doar cu privire la sinceritate. In afaceri si personal. In prietenie. Tu cati prieteni sinceri ai?
Insemnari similare
se pot deduce doua intrebari din intrebarea de final “Tu cati prieteni sinceri ai?”
* pentru cati esti un bun prieten?
* cati iti sunt buni prieteni?
sa inteleg ca prietenii adevarati sunt cei ce se regasesc in ambele raspunsuri?
Frumoasa si interesanta perspectiva si modul de abordare.
Multumesc Mihai ca ai intregit abordarea.
Cum putem analiza toate elementele – atat din post cat si din comentariu – din ambele perspective – personal si profesional? Cum sunt “prieteniile de afaceri”, “prieteniile sincere”, “prieteniile intre agentii – media, advertising sau PR – si media?” (fara a generaliza desigur 🙂 ) ?
prieteniei din relatii personale, ii corespunde in afaceri increderea; cel mai mare capital in afaceri este increderea
de exemplu: google mi-e prieten bun, pentru ca el imi ofera incredere
increderea se bazeaza pe transparenta ( echivalentul sinceritatii din relatiile personale ), pe calitate, pe persistenta
Daca legam prietenia intre oameni din agentii si jurnalisti (si inca o data precizez ca nu e generalizare ci doar vorba despre unele cazuri pe care le cunosc) putem aminti un citat din Othello – al lui Iago care spunea “Nu sunt ceea ce sunt?”.
Putem discuta de intrebari de complezenta? (ce mai faci?, cum iti merge?, ce proiecte mai desfasori? etc. – e perfect adevarat unii punand aceste intrebari si sincer interesati, dar cati sunt acestia?!?)
Ai mare dreptate cand spui ca prietenii adevarati sunt rari.Nici nu ai nevoie de multi.Pe cei curati, fara interese meschine ii gasesti greu,sunt undeva ascunsi ,stau si se uita uneori la noi,cred ca nu-i vedem cand trebuie.Dar cand i-am cunoscut ne bucuram nespus.Ne fac viata mai placuta.Un prieten adevarat plange cu tine,rade cu tine,se trezeste cu tine,alearga cu tine,vibreaza pentru tine la orice succes,pastreaza un secret.Prietenul nu poti sa-l planifici,iti dai seama de el daca este curat,fara ganduri ascunse,de la prima atingere de mana,de la prima privire care o aruncati unul altuia,dupa glasul lui,dupa pasiunile lui,gandurile lui.Prietenii adevarati vin intamplator langa tine,fara recomandare si nu te intreaba niciodata la prima intalnire “ce proiecte mai desfasori”.Te poate intreba ceva de genul”esti placuta si ma simt bine langa tine”.Cei care au un interes te cauta f.rar,chiar de loc.Te suna,sau apar “intamplator “pe strada langa tine cand iesi din sediu.Te abordeaza cu un zambet larg si printre altele isi cere scuze ca nu te-a mai cautat.De el sa fugi ca dracu de tamaie.
Cum alerg ca un besmetic pe net am gasit in seara aceasta un articol intitulat:”Despre prietenie in cateva dintre formele ei ” pe http://alinamanole.ablog.ro Daca ai timp sa sti ca merita .Pa !
da,
interesanta clasificarea din recomandare.
dar mai intii de toate,oare mai exista sinceritate intre prieteni?
si daca da,cum se manifesta? numai la bine?
din experienta proprie sinceritatea prietenilor are si spate…ca doar pentru ce sunt prietenii si prieteniile facute?
Nu degeaba Englezii spun: “a friend in need is a friend indeed”, sau cum spunem si noi romanii, “prietenul la nevoie sa cunoaste”. Plecand de la aceasta zicala englezeasca, (sau romaneasca) oricine isi poate face o evaluare daca are, sau cati prieteni are. Unii spun, prieteni adevarati am 1,2 etc. Dupa parerea mea, nu exista prieteni adevarati sau prieteni mai putin adevarati. Prietenul este sau ar trebui sa fie PRIETEN. Prietenul este cel pe care poti sa-l suni la orice ora din noapte in cazul in care ai un necaz si sa poata sa fie alaturi de tine, atunci, in momentul greu pe care trebuie sa-l depasesti, sa-ti dea un sfat, sa te sprijine moral si material daca este cazul, in limita posibilitatilor sale. Dupa aceasta evaluare, cred ca lista “prietenilor” se va micsora. Cine a vazut filmul LOVE STORY, trebuie sa-si aminteasca celebra fraza: “LOVE MEANS NEVER SAY I’M SORY” . Dupa parerea mea si: “FRIENDSHIP MEANS NEVER SAY I’M SORRY”. In acelasi timp, cred ca prietenia nu poate fi pe de o parte personala (adica in viata privata) ori de afaceri (in relatii de business). Adica, PRIETENIA este pur si simplu PRIETENIE. Legat de afaceri, putem spune “parteneriat de afaceri pe baza de amicitie, este cu totul diferit. Ca sa concluzionez, PRIETENUL este PRIETEN (IN TERMENII EXPUSI MAI SUS), dupa care, putem avea: cunostinte, amici, parteneri de afaceri, etc. Asta este parerea mea.
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