Atentie la ce si cand spuneti
Este aproape inevitabil sa nu se intalnesti pe cineva cu care sa ajungi sa vorbesti despre serviciu – colegi, clienti, etc.
Atentie unde sunteti. Locul in care o persoana se afla este foarte important. Un loc public – o cafenea, in holul sau pe terasa unui hotel, un restaurant, la un eveniment etc. – implica lume prezenta, oameni care se poate sa auda conversatii intregi sau macar franturi de conversatie.
Este posibil ca intre cei prezenti in acelasi loc, in acelasi timp – sa fie competitori de-ai dumneavoastra. Sa luam spre exemplu un hotel: oameni cazati – poate au camere cu balconul exact deasupra unora dintre mesele de la terasa. O discutie cu glas tare si o persoana care poate chiar fara intentia de a asculta se afla la balcon – este inevitabil sa nu fie auzita de acea persoana. Poate va discutati strategia politica cu un coleg sau strateg. Excelent. Dar daca persoana din balcon lucreaza pentru o publicatie ce nu va este prietena? Daca cumva cunoaste strategul unui competitor direct al dumneavoastra? Exemplul cu politica este dat si pentru ca aceasta e o perioada in care tot ce tine de domeniu este “in voga” data fiind campania electorala. Ideea in sine ramane valabila indiferent de domeniu.
Atentie la volum. Cat de tare vorbiti? – iata o intrebare la care ar trebui sa va puteti raspunde. Chiar daca – poate chiar din motive medicale – vorbiti mai tare, atunci cand aveti ceva important de spus reduceti volumul. Important nu este aproape niciodata sa va auziti dumneavoastra pe dumneavoastra ci este relevant sa va auda ceilalti; iar ei poate nu au probleme medicale.
Atentie la subiectele pe care le abordati. Atentie la exemplele folosite. Atentie la interlocutori. Conversatiile te prind, interlocutorii buni te provoaca. Poate si firea impinge spre dezvaluiri (poate chiar pentru a iesi in fata cu lucrurile extraordinare facute sau cu marile reusite impotriva tuturor piedicilor). Evitati insa subiectele ce tin de contracte in desfasurare – sau elemente confidentiale. Inclusiv increderea altora in dumneavoastra va spori. Fiti de asemenea atenti la exemplele cu care va ilustrati ideile. In sfarsit, mai ales cand vine vorba despre evenimente sau locuri la care sunt mai multe persoane prezente, asigurati-va ca ii stiti pe toti cei cu care vorbiti (macar la nivel de domeniu de activitate si functie) – nu ati dori sa transpara in presa informatii importante. Nu uitati de fiecare data sa va ganditi daca puteti face sau nu o informatie publica.
In sfarsit, atentie la numele pe care le mentionati si care pot fi sau nu cunoscute celorlalti. Fiti atenti despre cine vorbiti si cu cine – va puteti spre exemplu plange de cineva, fara a stii ca acea persoana este prietena exact cu individul despre care va plangeti…
Evident nu trebuie pus tot raul inainte – insa, e mai usor sa previi decat sa tratezi. Si cum o vorba spusa este foarte greu de contracarat… concluzia este clara.
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Da, intr-adevar ar putea parea putin paranoic la prima lectura.
Asta… pana reallizezi ca deja ti s-au intamplat de mai multe ori in viata situatii cand ai realizat surprins ca ai comunicat unor necunoscuti invecinati tot felul de lucruri pe care credeai ca le impartasesti doar persoanelor din fata ta.
Evident, de obicei, nu e nimic grav in asta (decat cel mult daca prin vocea ridicata ai deranjat pe cineva din jur care are vreun drept sa se planga de asta).
Insa, este sigur ca la un moment dat o sa ai si lucruri extrem de importante pentru tine pe care o sa vrei sa le spui intr-un spatiu public – adica nu in dulapul din dormitor, printre paltoane, dupa ce ai verificat sa nu fie microfoane montate prin zona 🙂
Si oricum este bine sa ai permanent macar o idee vaga despre ceea ce se petrece in jurul tau, nu?
Poate suna paranoic – dar… mie una mi s-a intamplat sa aud o conversatie ce cu siguranta nu era adresata publicului…
Sigur ca vorbitul tare in public nu e de natura sa onoreze pe nimeni. Dar de cate ori nu ni se intampla intr-un loc unde e galagie sa vorbim si cu glas mai tare? E un reflex ca si vorbitul la fel de tare la mobil. Personal mi s-a intamplat de cateva ori sa imi dau seama de situatia intr-un fel ridicola de a vorbi tare , ca imediat dupa aceea sa vorbesc in soapta. Sigur ca apoi am izbucnit in ras si am gasit tonalitatea potrivita. Dar lasand gluma la o parte , observatia ta e pe deplin justificata si merita atentia necesara. Prin urmare: cine are urechi sa auda…
Draga Catia, ai subliniat foarte bine: in anumite contexte vorbim toti mai tare – suntem am putea spune fortati sa facem astfel pentru ca altii sa ne auda.
Eu ma referam la situatia de a vorbi tare atunci cand nu e cazul – gen pe o terasa cu muzica in surdina, sau intr-un restaurant de poti fi auzit de peste 3 mese si tot asa. Ah, si sa nu uit! vorbitul in timpul filmului la cinema sau spectacole e doar dovada de lipsa de bun simt – mai ales daca e tare!
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